Original Advice
“DONT: Don't demand constant texts; schedule one meaningful check-in.”
Upgrade From Pings To Signal
Here’s the unflattering mirror: you’re not bored, you’re restless. You chase pings like crumbs and call it connection. Constant texts are a leash disguised as care. You hate leashes. Aquarius is air; air needs room. Make the phone sacred, not a slot machine. Choose one check-in with weight. Let the quiet do some work. Space is not rejection. It’s signal.
Attention is a finite currency. Spend it where it compounds. One deliberate touchpoint becomes a lighthouse; constant notifications become static. Interval builds charge, novelty, recall. Your nervous system unlocks ideas when it isn’t triaging dings. Put meaning inside a container. Protect anticipation like a flame. Stop grazing. Plan the call, bring substance, then step away. Boredom is the kiln. The message will harden there.
Cosmic Context
As a fixed air sign ruled by Saturn and Uranus, you choreograph time and disruption. Your signal travels farther when you leave clean sky between transmissions.
Action
──────Schedule a weekly 20-minute call; ignore filler texts.
✨ You are allowed to let silence carry half the conversation. ✨