Original Advice
“DONT: Don't confuse fast chemistry with long-term compatibility.”
Speed Isn't a Soul Contract
Adrenaline is not devotion. A spark is not a home. You rush, they mirror, and your pulse mistakes echo for substance. Fast chemistry flatters your ego, then starves your patience. You swipe, lock eyes, crown them in an hour. Stop. Lust is a fire alarm, not the lease. Let the blush fade. See who shows up without the stage lights.
Compatibility shows up in the unglamorous. Who texts back on Tuesday. Who rinses the cup. Who listens when you're bored with your own story. Attraction is a match; longevity is a schedule, a spine, a shared joke at 2 p.m. Slow is not cold. It's data. It's pattern over promise. Choose the person who repeats the good thing without applause.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; cardinal fire charges first. Temper the spark with aim so your war-mind chooses the right hill.
Action
──────Wait 72 hours before escalating texts, plans, or touch.
✨ You are allowed to want slow heat and solid proof. ✨