Original Advice
“You are allowed to enjoy the spark - Let yourself bask in playful attention without promising more than you mean. You can slow the pace, ask for clarity, or walk away if actions don't match words. No guilt, no shame.”
Own the Spark, Not the Story
You love the chase; they love your heat. The uncomfortable part: attention is not a contract. Stop confusing a glance with a vow. Flirt is a spark, not a mortgage. Let eyes meet, trade banter, and stop there. Say what you mean; nothing extra. If their actions blur, slow the scene. If guilt appears for not escalating, call it superstition and drop it.
Your fire is precious fuel, not public utility. Pace guards ignition; clarity preserves oxygen. When words and behavior clash, treat the mismatch as a map, not a mystery. Ask for terms. If they stall, you pivot. The thrill survives boundaries; the right person flirts in rhythm with you. Consistency turns sparks into campfires. Anything else is smoke machines and headache.
Cosmic Context
Mars drives you to act in exclamation points. As the first fire sign, you ignite beginnings; you do not owe every flame a sequel.
Action
──────Ask directly: What do you actually want with me?
✨ You are allowed to stop at flirting and feel complete. ✨