Original Advice

Flirtation isn't a commitment: An Aries can light you up and still be undecided. If you're clinging to every joke or heart emoji, you're building a story they haven't confirmed. Ask, don't assume.

Stop Marrying Every Wink

Your banter is gasoline. One emoji and the room thinks it’s a ceremony. It isn’t. You lit the match because it’s fun to see what glows, not because you swore allegiance. Stop letting winks masquerade as contracts. Quit worshiping hints as evidence. Ask for the label or leave the stage. If they need a promise, say yes or say nothing.

You burn at the starting line. Mars writes you in verbs, not clauses. Flirtation is your warm-up lap, not the finish tape. You chase the spark, then pause when it asks for furniture. Attention feeds you; ambiguity protects you. Both cost others time. Choose pace with intention. Name your lane. Close loops you opened. Directness doesn’t kill magic; it keeps the fire from burning the house.

Cosmic Context

Cardinal fire launches first and decides later. Mars gives you a clean blade—cut through the haze before the blaze spreads.

Action

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Text them: 'Are we dating or just flirting?'

You are allowed to enjoy the spark without promising the future.