Original Advice
“DONT: Start fights when a conversation solves more.”
Choose Dialogue Over Detonation
Your flare-ups are not independence; they are shortcuts. You confuse speed with strength and call it leadership. Starting a fight spares you from the harder act: staying present long enough to understand. You burn the room to prove you own it. That’s not power. That’s panic in armor. Speak. Ask for meaning. Win without smoke.
Conversation is not surrender; it is reconnaissance. It gets you the map before you charge. Your independence strengthens when it stops mistaking isolation for control. You don’t need volume to verify truth. You need clarity, aim, and timing. Count the cost of every explosion: delayed apologies, scorched alliances, wasted hours. Trade the brawl for precision. Direct the fire, don’t detonate.
Cosmic Context
You are Mars-born, cardinal fire. When you choose conversation over combustion, you wield your flame like a blade, not a grenade.
Action
──────Before replying, write the exact outcome you want.
✨ You are allowed to pause without losing the crown. ✨