Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t hide behind busyness to avoid hard feelings.”
Your Calendar Isn’t Armor
You call it hustle. It’s hiding. You stuff your calendar until there’s no oxygen left, so no one can ask the question you can’t bear: What do you actually feel? You outrun silence, outwork grief, outpace intimacy. Busy looks brave. It’s camouflage. The hard feeling waits at the bottom of your inbox, still unopened, still running your day.
Motion numbs fear. Aries loves motion. It gives you the illusion of winning, even when the battle is with a door you refuse to open. Busyness keeps control on your terms; feelings demand surrender on theirs. But the meter’s running either way. Pay now with a clean conversation, or pay later with interest: distance, confusion, resentment, the smolder that becomes a fire.
Cosmic Context
Your ruler is Mars; you’re built for decisive action, not evasive maneuvers. Aim that courage inward—charge the truth, not another task.
Action
──────Cancel one plan and have the uncomfortable conversation before sunset.
✨ You are allowed to stop performing and say you’re hurt. ✨