Original Advice
“DO: Say what you need, calmly and specifically.”
Turn Jealousy Into Clear Requests
Jealousy is a flare gun you keep firing at the dark, hoping it becomes a lighthouse. It only burns holes in your pockets. Stop circling their phone, their smile, the ghost stories you invent. What you want is not proof, it’s a promise. Name it. Two sentences, no smoke. Speak like a receipt. Calm voice. Full stop between needs. No accusations, no theater, only facts.
Specifics save you. Vague asks breed tests, traps, and late-night surveillance. Precision closes the window jealousy climbs through. When you say, I need a check-in before midnight, you replace guessing with architecture. If they can meet it, you learn. If they won’t, you learn faster. Clear needs expose compatibility and end the performance. Your energy is a blade. Use the edge, not the spark.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you. Directness is your superpower; precision keeps it from burning the village.
Action
──────Send one calm, specific request. No preface, no apology, no test.
✨ You are allowed to ask for certainty without drama. ✨