Original Advice
“DONT: Clip their independence or mock their passion.”
Loyalty Doesn’t Cage Wildfire
Your version of loyalty can turn into a leash. Control is not commitment. Stop timing their replies, auditing their weekends, or dimming their weird little rituals. If you want devotion, stop choking the room with rules. Don’t sneer at what lights them up. Protect their spark, don’t police it. The moment you belittle, you teach them to hide from you.
Fire needs oxygen. So do people. Loyalty grows when the other person keeps their edges. Mock their passion and you announce you don’t trust who they are; they will spend that trust elsewhere. Let them roam, and they bring discoveries back to you. You are strongest when you guard the perimeter, not the pulse. Win by confidence, not surveillance.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; cardinal fire moves first, not small. Your loyalty is legendary when it protects freedom, including theirs.
Action
──────Compliment their obsession today, then give them two hours alone.
✨ You are allowed to love without locking the door. ✨