Original Advice
“Intensity isn't an excuse for chaos: If you need constant reassurance, name it, not demand it. If you're dodging replies or playing games, you're feeding the very 'neediness' you judge. Consistency cures confusion.”
Name Needs, Stop Games
Here’s the sting: you call it passion, but you keep building mazes. You want constant proof and refuse to say so, then punish the people who don’t read your mind. You ghost, then demand loyalty. You double-text, then disappear. That isn’t intensity; it’s chaos cosplay. You label others “needy” while feeding the beast yourself. Consistency isn’t boring—it’s the antidote.
Why it matters: Mars rules you. You move first, think later. Your body loves the spike—chase, silence, chase. But adrenaline isn’t intimacy. Games train people to flinch. Naming the need—“I want reassurance, not tests”—turns heat into signal instead of wildfire. Say what cadence keeps you steady. Show up when you say you will. Reliability is erotic. Predictable contact builds the courage for real risk.
Cosmic Context
As an Aries, you’re the spark that starts the engine. Lead with clarity: a steady pilot light outperforms random fireworks.
Action
──────Stop testing. Ask for a daily check-in at 6 PM.
✨ You are allowed to want reassurance and say it out loud. ✨