Original Advice
“DO: State your needs and preferred pacing directly.”
Your Tempo Is Not Telepathy
Stop testing lovers with silence. They are not clairvoyant. When you swallow your needs, you build a trap and then spring it. Name the tempo. Fast? Slow? Weekends only? No sleepovers? Say it before the kiss, after the kiss, every time confusion creeps in. Clarity is not harsh; it is warmth in straight lines. Set the metronome. Watch the chaos shrink.
Your fire runs on oxygen, not guesswork. Directness keeps you from sprinting, crashing, and blaming the road. Pacing is not restraint; it is endurance. When you set frequency, timing, and touch, you let desire build pressure instead of smoke. Logistics are love’s skeleton. Pick days. Pick hours. Pick speed. Tattoo it on your texts. Make it ordinary so passion has somewhere to live.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; cardinal fire starts everything. When you speak first, you steer the flame instead of chasing it.
Action
──────Send: Two dates weekly. Morning texts. Slow physical pace.
✨ You are allowed to want what you want and say so. ✨