Original Advice
“DONT: Try to change them to feel safer”
Your Safety Isn't Their Job
Stop sculpting someone else into a pillow for your nerves. They are not raw material. You cannot sand a player into safety. Every tweak is a leash you tie to your own throat. Control won't save you; it only distracts you from the truth: if you need them different to relax, they're not for you, and you already know it.
Players thrive on motion. They don't change; the scenery does. When you start editing them, you exit your body and enter theirs. That's how you lose the war: not in battle, but in maintenance. Safety is a boundary, not a makeover. Call things by their names. Let their pattern stand untouched, so yours can stand, too. Choose the door, not the workshop.
Cosmic Context
As Mars' first spark, you create momentum in seconds. Aim that force at your choices, not at rewiring someone else's circuitry.
Action
──────State your standard once, then stop texting for seven days.
✨ You are allowed to choose boredom over chaos and call it peace. ✨