Original Advice
“You are allowed to ask for consistency over sparks - Set timelines, name your needs, and walk away if they wobble. Attraction isn’t a contract; boundaries make love safer, not smaller. No guilt, no shame—just self-respect.”
Pick Rhythm Over Fireworks
Uncomfortable truth: the 'player' loves your spark, not your schedule. They reply at midnight, plan at noon, vanish on weekends. You call it chemistry; it’s volatility. Stop auditioning for someone who won’t show up on time. Ask for regular calls, real plans, clear intentions. If they wobble, you walk. Attraction is not a down payment. Consistency is oxygen. Treat crumbs like an insult.
Fire starts fast and dies fast. Rhythm keeps the flame alive. Your body runs on cadence: sleep cycles, gym reps, paydays. Love does too. Timelines aren’t ultimatums; they are calendars for desire. Needs named become doors, not traps. When you choose steadiness, you choose stamina for the hunt that actually matters—building a life. Chemistry without commitment is weather. You are climate. Set the forecast.
Cosmic Context
Ruled by Mars, you ignite first and think later. This season demands endurance—turn warrior energy into routine, not reruns.
Action
──────Set a 30-day check-in; leave if consistency isn’t met.
✨ You are allowed to prefer reliability over rush and call it love. ✨