Original Advice
“You are allowed to ask for clarity and consistency - Say what you need, then measure actions against it. If behavior and promises don’t align, step back without guilt or self-blame. Protecting your peace is responsible, not shameful.”
Demand Proof, Not Pretty Promises
Here’s the splinter: people who want access to you will perform sincerity until you stop checking the receipt. Words are cheap because you keep paying retail for them. Stop pretending you don’t see the mismatch. Name what you need, once. Then watch. If the behavior stutters, that is the answer. Step back without a monologue. Your silence is a locked door, not a tantrum.
Your energy is gasoline, not tap water. You ignite things; that’s your gift and your risk. Inconsistency siphons your fuel, drip by drip, until your spark feels like smoke. Consistency isn’t romantic, it’s respect. Clarity isn’t demanding, it’s directions. When you ask and they dodge, you are underwriting their confusion. Cut the subsidy. Routine is not boring for you right now—it’s armor for the sprint ahead.
Cosmic Context
You are cardinal fire, ruled by Mars—built to start, not to babysit mixed signals. Clean edges let your charge hit the target.
Action
──────Ask once this week. If actions lag, pause all access.
✨ You are allowed to require consistency before intimacy. ✨