Original Advice
“DONT: Don't demand constant excitement; respect their pacing.”
Stop Chasing Fireworks, Build Heat
Your impatience reads as insecurity. When the room cools, you poke at it until it breaks. Not everything exists to dazzle you on command. The rhythm you call boring is the ground you walk on. Stop demanding drum solos from people building the stage. Hold the unlit minutes without fidgeting. Respect a pace that isn’t yours. If you can’t be quiet, you can’t be trusted.
Adrenaline is expensive currency. You spend it to avoid intimacy, then blame the bill on boredom. Real closeness advances like a glacier: weight, pressure, direction. Pace creates safety; safety breeds risk; risk deepens heat. Their tempo is not a refusal, it’s engineering. Trust the long arc. Let repetition season desire. Learn the skill of uneventful presence. Boredom isn’t an enemy; it’s a doorway you keep skipping.
Cosmic Context
You’re ruled by Saturn, architect of time and structure. Your power multiplies when you honor duration over spectacle.
Action
──────Schedule one plan-free evening and refuse to seek stimulation.
✨ You are allowed to move slowly and still be wanted. ✨