Original Advice
“DO: Put plans in a shared calendar to reduce anxiety.”
Public Time, Private Peace
Your grip on time masquerades as care. It’s possessiveness in a sensible blazer. You hoard minutes, monitor arrivals, interrogate gaps, then call it responsibility. The truth: secrecy feeds your panic. Hidden plans invite stories with sharp teeth. Put the plans where eyes can see them. Stop locking your calendar like a vault. Transparency is not surrender; it is control that breathes.
Shared calendars puncture the fog. They give your ambition a map instead of a guard post. When the schedule is communal, you stop inventing emergencies and start allocating energy. Everyone knows who is where, when, and why—dinners, deadlines, dog-walks. Structure dissolves suspicion. Naming time turns clutching into collaboration. You still lead. You just lead with clocks that talk, not locks that click.
Cosmic Context
Saturn-ruled Capricorn thrives under architecture. A shared calendar is your mountain path: less jealousy, more altitude.
Action
──────Create a shared calendar and load the next eight weeks.
✨ You are allowed to stop policing other people's time. ✨