Original Advice
“DONT: Don't confuse boundaries with walls; explain the difference.”
Build Doors, Not Fortresses
You use 'boundaries' as armor. Admit it. You call it self-respect, but it's convenience. You block, vanish, schedule people like a spreadsheet. Then complain about being misunderstood. A boundary invites clarity; a wall starves connection. Your distance reads as selfish, not sovereign. You weren't abandoned; you withdrew. Say what is allowed. Stop punishing others for not decoding you.
Boundaries are measurements; walls are monuments. A boundary says: here is the line, here is the door, here are the hours. A wall declares exile. You crave efficiency, so you hoard control. Then resentment grows like mildew in a sealed room. Clarity is not a gift; it's maintenance. State the rule, state the consequence, stay human. Let people approach. Let some be turned away.
Cosmic Context
Saturn built your backbone; it also builds prisons. Rule the kingdom, but remember roads beat moats.
Action
──────Write and send three sentences defining your availability this week.
✨ You are allowed to protect your time without disappearing. ✨