Original Advice
“DO: Notice actions repeated over time, not one-offs.”
Trust the Pattern, Not Performances
People don't slip; they rehearse. A single grand gesture is a costume change, not character. You keep forgiving the one-off because it's prettier than the ledger. Count what happens more than once: the late arrivals, the lost texts, the sudden emergencies when you need help. If it repeats, it's policy. If you ignore it, you're co-signing. Your calendar is evidence. So is your gut.
Time strips varnish. Patterns outlast performances. Saturn writes in habits, not captions. Track who initiates, who follows up, who remembers the boring details. Reliability is not romantic, it’s real. Consistency is currency in your economy; spend it where it compounds. A faker dazzles under spotlight and glitches when it's inconvenient. Watch the Tuesdays, not the birthdays. Audit, adjust, enforce. Results show.
Cosmic Context
Saturn rules you; time is your instrument. You build with proof, not promises.
Action
──────Keep a two-week behavior log; revoke access for repeat offenders.
✨ You are allowed to believe the pattern and walk away. ✨