Original Advice
“You are allowed to want clear intentions now - You don’t have to earn direct answers by being cooler, wittier, or endlessly available. Ask for what you need, and act on what you learn without apologizing. Your boundaries are legitimate, and saying no to mixed signals isn’t rude—it’s self-respect.”
Stop Flirting With Uncertainty
Uncomfortable truth: they're not confused; they're comfortable with your confusion. You've been performing charm while doing the emotional admin. Flirtation won't alchemize mixed signals into meaning; it only decorates emptiness. Stop auditioning. Stop translating silence. Ask directly, once. Believe the first answer, including the non-answer. Walk yourself out of ambiguity like it's a room with the lights on.
Clarity saves you time, energy, and softness. Your whiplash isn't romance; it's poor logistics. Mixed signals are not a puzzle for you to solve; they're a boundary you're allowed to decline. Your attention is premium inventory. Spend it where answers arrive on time. If directness thins the crowd, good: less noise, more signal. Chemistry survives clarity. Performance doesn't.
Cosmic Context
Mercury wires you for conversation, not divination. The Twins can hold two truths, but not two contracts: choose the one that answers.
Action
──────Text this: 'What do you want with me?'
✨ You are allowed to require clarity and walk away from fog. ✨