Original Advice
“Flirting Isn’t a Relationship Strategy: Craving their spark doesn’t obligate them to commit. If you keep translating playful banter into promises, you’re setting yourself up to be breadcrumbed. Ask for clear intentions—or accept it’s just fun talking and stop investing like it’s more.”
Stop Confusing Sparks With Vows
Here’s the cut: they like pinging you, not building with you. Flirting is air, not brick. When you treat a joke like a promise, you crown a jester as a king. Breadcrumbs feel like a trail; it’s just a mess. Stop funding a fantasy with your presence. Name what you want. If their answer is fog, step out of the weather.
Attention is cheap, clarity is rare. People perform chemistry to feel alive, then disappear to keep options open. Banter is a slot machine: intermittent wins keep you pulling the lever. Your time is the jackpot in their pocket. Convert the game to terms: plans, timelines, presence. If they can’t land the plane, close the runway. Silence returns your power faster than calls do.
Cosmic Context
You’re Mercury-ruled: fluent in sparks, allergic to silence. Let your twin choose the one who shows up, not the one who dazzles your chat log.
Action
──────Ask for their intentions by Friday; disengage if they waffle.
✨ You are allowed to enjoy the spark and still walk away. ✨