Original Advice
“You are allowed to want curiosity—and set limits - You are allowed to want curiosity—and set limits. Speak your desires and boundaries plainly; the right people will meet you there or gracefully exit. No apologizing for your pace or preferences—no guilt, no shame.”
Freaky, With A Password
Stop performing open-mindedness like a party trick. Your curiosity is not a coupon for access. Say what turns you on and what is off-limits, out loud, before anyone touches the dimmer switch. The ones who deserve your split-screen mind will nod or leave. Both outcomes are clean. No apologizing. No fake yeses. No delayed exits. Curiosity with a lock on it is still curiosity.
You run on stimulation, not obligation. Boundaries sharpen the signal; they keep the experiment safe enough to be wild. Freaky blooms when the rules are clear: safe words, closed doors, explicit consent, timed exits. Pace is not prudence; it’s rhythm. Demand feedback. Pause when your mind drifts. Redirect when the bit gets stale. Refinement is not rejection. Precision is foreplay.
Cosmic Context
Mercury rules you; you are a switchboard of desires and data. Boundaries are punctuation—periods and commas that make the sentence sexy.
Action
──────Write your three non-negotiables and text them before the date.
✨ You are allowed to ask for everything and refuse anything. ✨