Original Advice
“DONT: Don't gossip about them; address issues privately.”
Cut the Chorus. Speak to Them.
Stop turning conflict into entertainment. The smile in public and acid in private makes you look hollow, not clever. Every recap to a bystander is courage outsourced and respect leaking. Gossip feeds your ego, starves your integrity. If it concerns them, speak to them. Shut the side channel. Send the message. Pick a door and walk through it alone.
Gossip multiplies versions and erases accountability. It turns a solvable snag into folklore. Private conversation is a scalpel: precise, contained, humane. It protects dignity—yours and theirs—and lands facts where they can change something. You don’t need a jury; you need a result. Choose clarity over applause, real-time data over rumor lag. Say it once, directly, then let silence do cleanup.
Cosmic Context
You’re Mercury’s twin—words are your weather. Graduate from broadcaster to messenger: deliver to the right address.
Action
──────Message them now: "Private chat today? I want clarity."
✨ You are allowed to be direct without being cruel. ✨