Original Advice
“DO: Name the specific unfair thing, calmly and early.”
Call Out the Tilted Scale
You hate conflict, so you let small injustices slide until they calcify into a grudge. You smile through a knot in your jaw. That performance costs you time, sleep, and self-respect. Name the skewed thing before it grows fangs. Point to the exact sentence, the missing credit, the lopsided chore chart. Calm voice. Early timing. Accuracy over charm.
Specifics cut the fog. When you say exactly what was unfair, you trap the problem in daylight, not in your body. Early is leverage; late is poison. Calm keeps the door open while your boundary clicks into place. You are not attacking; you are measuring. If they flinch, let them. The truth doesn’t need volume. It needs a label and a timestamp.
Cosmic Context
You are ruled by the Scales. Justice is your native language—use it before resentment becomes your accent.
Action
──────Say: "That was unfair because ___," within one hour.
✨ You are allowed to choose fairness over likability. ✨