Original Advice
“DONT: Don't avoid boundaries to keep the peace.”
Polite Isn't Peace. Boundaries Are.
Your niceness is a disguise that keeps everyone comfortable except you. You smile while your stomach knots. You call it diplomacy; it's avoidance. When you say yes to keep the room calm, you say no to yourself and teach others to ignore you. Peace without truth is performance. Stop serving harmony that costs your dignity. Silence breeds resentment, not balance.
Boundaries don't break connection; they define it. People feel safer around you when they know where you end. Saying no is clean data. It lets the right people step closer and the wrong ones drift. Harmony built on clarity lasts longer than compromise built on fear. Your standards are a map, not a wall. Draw them in ink, not vapor. Let discomfort do its job.
Cosmic Context
You're Libra: ruled by Venus, wired for equilibrium. The scales stay true when both pans carry weight—yours included.
Action
──────Say no to one request today without apology.
✨ You are allowed to disappoint others to stay loyal to yourself. ✨