Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t over-give to prove your compassion.”
Stop Proving Compassion With Exhaustion
Stop bribing love with labor. You over-give to calm your anxiety and call it compassion. Your kindness turns into proof, receipts you clip to your worth. They feel helped; you feel emptied. You polish halos while your own sink. Generosity without edges becomes a disappearing act. If they only stay when you over-extend, they're not staying for you.
Over-giving distorts the math of intimacy. It teaches people to approach you for service, not connection. Exhaustion is not a love language. Compassion is presence, not performance. When you stop filling every silence with effort, truth appears: who checks on you, who adjusts, who vanishes. Let them carry their own bags. Your value is innate. Proof is for receipts, not relationships.
Cosmic Context
Pisces lives porous, ruled by tides and fog. Your oceanic empathy is sacred; your lesson is to build a shoreline.
Action
──────Say no to the next favor asked of you today.
✨ You are allowed to be loved when you do nothing. ✨