Original Advice
“Reassurance won’t cure mistrust: Endless check-ins won’t calm a jealous spiral. If you keep testing, you’ll eventually create the distance you fear. Build trust skills—self-soothing, clear asks, and boundaries—before you ask for more proof.”
Trust Isn't a Surveillance System
Jealousy is not a smoke alarm; it's a habit. Every where-are-you ping trains your fear to bark louder. You call it care. It's control. You want a guarantee, so you run audits on someone you claim to trust. That isn't love; it's accounting. Keep testing and you'll grade them into silence. Stop feeding the spiral that swallows you.
Proof never satisfies a mind rehearsing danger. The goalposts move. Data becomes suspicion. You read tea leaves, not facts. Trust grows from consistent action - yours as much as theirs. Regulate your attention like money. Spend less on surveillance, more on presence. Name one need plainly. Set a boundary you can enforce. Let absence exist without inventing a plot.
Cosmic Context
Pisces dissolves borders and dreams in widescreen. Your empathy collects static; Neptune fog blurs signal into story.
Action
──────Stop the 11 p.m. check-in texts for seven nights.
✨ You are allowed to be loved without proof. ✨