Original Advice
“DONT: Corner them with constant check-ins or demands.”
Quit Policing Their Orbit
Your "just checking in" is a leash. Each ping converts warmth into audit. You call it care; it lands as doubt. They glance at your name and the room shrinks. Demands stack like bricks until the door disappears. This is not closeness, it is policing. Stop corralling a creature built for distance. Give them sky, or watch them plot an exit.
Sagittarius thrives on open roads and unmonitored time. Pressure triggers evasion, not devotion. When every hour needs proof, they start hiding hours. Curiosity becomes interrogation. Deadlines turn play into punishment. Give them a wide perimeter and a clear rendezvous; they will actually show. Leave the gate open. Trust is the magnet. Chase them, and you teach their feet to run.
Cosmic Context
Mutable fire chooses movement over maintenance. Jupiter rules expansion; pin them down and you shrink the blessing.
Action
──────Stop double-texting; wait 24 hours before following up.
✨ You are allowed to let silence prove your trust. ✨