Original Advice
“DO: Name the feeling, then name the need.”
Say It, Then Ask For It
Your bluntness dodges intimacy by aiming at ideas instead of blood. You perform optimism to avoid the ache under your ribs. Stop outrunning the weather inside you. Say: angry, lonely, jealous, tender, scared. Don’t decorate it with jokes or philosophy. Then say what you need: space, closeness, clarity, silence, help. Not a story. Not a sermon. A label, then a request.
Naming is archery. Vague feelings scatter; precise words land. When you aim at the need, drama shrinks, outcomes sharpen, people respond. You don’t lose freedom by asking; you lose it by pretending you need nothing. Truth spoken cleanly travels faster than hints. Map the emotion, mark the supply line, move. This is logistics, not poetry. Hit the target before the wildfire hits you.
Cosmic Context
You’re Sagittarius: fire with a compass, ruled by Jupiter’s appetite. Aim your honesty at needs, and expansion follows obedience to truth.
Action
──────Text one person: “I feel X. I need Y.”
✨ You are allowed to ask without apologizing, and stay free. ✨