Original Advice
“DONT: Don't abandon hobbies; keep your independent life.”
Keep Your Life, Starve Jealousy
When you drop your hobbies, you hand jealousy a spare key. You stop being a horizon and turn into a hallway. Obsession moves in because there’s nothing else occupying the room. Quit orbiting someone like a moon. Be the comet that keeps its itinerary. Schedule your practice, your trail, your studio time. Do not negotiate with panic. Keep building a life that doesn’t wait by the door.
Jealousy loves idle hands. Your crafts, runs, books, and classes are ballast; they steady your ship when romance gets stormy. When you keep learning and making, you remember scale. One person is a chapter, not the library. Your independence doesn’t threaten connection; it oxygenates it. People respect what you protect. Guard your Saturdays. Guard your group chat. Guard the small sacred routines that make you unmistakably you.
Cosmic Context
You’re Sagittarius: Jupiter-fed, arrow first, questions later. Expansion is your medicine; shrink and envy multiplies.
Action
──────Block two nights weekly for a hobby, no exceptions.
✨ You are allowed to be unavailable and still beloved. ✨