Original Advice
“You are allowed to want reassurance - Ask for clarity, affection, and updates without apologizing for needs. Your requests don't make you clingy; they make the relationship navigable. Choose truth over guessing and release the guilt.”
Reassurance Is Not Clingy
Stop pretending jealousy is a moral failure. It’s a smoke alarm. It screams when information is missing. You pace the room, inventing stories, then punish yourself for wanting a simple answer. Ask. Demand timestamps, plans, affection, context. Name the need out loud. Clarity is not clingy; it’s a map. Choose the blunt text over the spiral. Release the shame like old receipts.
You worship freedom, but freedom collapses without trust. Trust is built with updates, not mind reading. Jealousy withers in daylight. Ask for locations, intentions, touch, timing. Set the route together so both can wander without vanishing. Your directness is a gift; aim it at the question, not at yourself. Replace speculation with data. Replace edge-of-seat waiting with calendar entries and warm hands.
Cosmic Context
Jupiter rules you; you expand by telling the truth. The archer doesn’t squint at shadows—aim at facts.
Action
──────Send: 'I need a check-in tonight—10 minutes at 9'.
✨ You are allowed to ask directly and be answered. ✨