Original Advice
“DO: Put plans in writing, not vibes.”
Make receipts, not riddles
Your passive-aggressive freedom act looks like flaking. Your 'let's vibe' text reads as avoidance. People can't follow a compass you refuse to draw. When you hint, you force others to chase you or disappoint you. That isn't sovereignty, it's control without fingerprints. Put the plan in writing. Times, locations, expectations. If they matter, name it. If not, release it cleanly.
Writing turns fire into direction. It pulls your big, Jupiter-sized intention out of the fog and pins it to a day. Receipts kill resentment. Specifics let people meet you, or bow out, without games. Clarity is not a cage; it's a runway. Say the plan. Ask for the time you want. Replace 'we'll see' with dates. Make spontaneity a choice, not a test.
Cosmic Context
Mutable fire needs coordinates to land. Aim the arrow; give the target a time and place.
Action
──────Text the exact plan: who, where, when, how long.
✨ You are allowed to be obvious and still be wild. ✨