Original Advice
“DONT: Don't test loyalty with silent treatments.”
Stop Weaponizing Your Quiet Storm
Silence is not discipline; it’s a leash. You call it mystery, control, protection. It’s a trap. Withholding words to measure devotion corrodes the devotion you crave. They don’t learn you; they learn your weather. Loyalty won’t bloom in a blackout. If they stay, it’s fear. If they go, it’s fatigue. Speak. Risk clarity. Stop staging disappearances and then blaming the audience for leaving.
You confuse discernment with punishment. Testing costs less than trusting, so you invoice everyone with silence. It looks powerful. It’s lazy. The real flex is precision: name the boundary, name the bruise, name the need. Dramatic storms waste time; direct weather reports save lives. Intimacy requires exposure, not fog. If they fail you, let them fail in daylight. Data beats myths. Choose data.
Cosmic Context
You’re fixed water: pressure and depth. Mars and Pluto arm you with x-ray instincts—use them to cut through, not cut off.
Action
──────Break the silence in 24 hours. Say what hurt.
✨ You are allowed to want devotion and still speak plainly. ✨