Original Advice
“You are allowed to... choose trust in small steps - You don't need to bare everything at once; offer one honest piece and see who handles it with care. You're not too much for wanting depth, and you don't owe performative chill. Your pace is valid.”
Trust Is a Controlled Burn
Your suspicion is not protection; it is a cage you built with exquisite care. You audit every word, test every touch, then label it intuition. It's control wearing caution like perfume. You demand depth, then flinch at proof. You want devotion without risk. Name the game: you hoard secrets because you doubt your worth unarmored. The stalemate isn't fate. It's you gripping the lock.
Trust is not a flood; it's a measured drip that carves stone. Choose the smallest real thing and place it on the table. Watch how they hold it. Track actions, not vows. Raise the weight by ounces. Withdraw when carelessness appears; proceed when steadiness does. This is not performance. This is calibration. You are building evidence that your intensity deserves a room, not a warning sign.
Cosmic Context
You are fixed water: pressure, depth, and the will to transform. Mars and Pluto gift you x-ray vision; use it to refine bonds, not to preempt them.
Action
──────Tell one person one true thing you usually hide.
✨ You are allowed to reveal in increments and call it power. ✨