Original Advice
“DONT: Snoop through phones or weaponize secret fears.”
Trust Is Not Surveillance
Stop pretending your curiosity is care. When you pry, you confess your own fear louder than their secrets ever could. Snooping is a love letter to control, mailed to an empty address. You are not a detective; you're a demolition crew with clean hands. Every scroll, every screenshot, swings the hammer. If you need evidence, your faith already left the room.
Power built on panic leaks. When you weaponize what someone whispered in the dark, you poison your own well first. Intimacy cannot grow inside a courtroom you keep convening. Control feels safer than trust because it obeys, until it turns on you. Choose risk. Ask. Wait. Let silence embarrass your paranoia instead of your partner. Protect the mystery so it can feed you, not consume you.
Cosmic Context
You are fixed water: depth under pressure, relentless tides. Your x-ray vision was made to hold truth steady, not to stage stings.
Action
──────Put the phone down. Ask one direct question, then stop talking.
✨ You are allowed to want loyalty without policing it. ✨