Original Advice
“DO: Ask for clarity on exclusivity and expectations.”
Define the Deal, Not the Drama
Call it what it is. If exclusivity is foggy, loyalty is theater. Cheating hides in the sentence you were too polite to finish. Ask, out loud: Are we exclusive? What does commitment look like this week, this month, when your phone lights up at 2 a.m.? Put dates, boundaries, boring details on the table. Precision is protection. Ambiguity feeds fantasy. Remove the buffet. Make one plate.
You’re built for depth, not half-shadows. Questions are not accusations; they are architecture. Define expectations so your instinct can rest and your desire can burn clean. You cannot transmute mixed signals into devotion. Put timeframes, access, dating-app status, condom use, holiday plans into words. A contract keeps passion from eating you alive. If they flinch at clarity, record the data. Act accordingly, not dramatically.
Cosmic Context
As fixed water, you need containers for your intensity. Pluto hands you x-ray vision; use it to define the edges, not to chase ghosts.
Action
──────Ask directly: 'Are we exclusive? List our expectations in writing.'
✨ You are allowed to require answers and leave when clarity is refused. ✨