Original Advice
“You are allowed to want clear motives - Ask direct questions, request transparency, and step back if answers dodge. Boundaries are not attacks; they are standards. Release the guilt of being 'too much'—clarity protects everyone.”
Demand Motives. Refuse Fog.
Here’s the rot: when motives hide, manipulation blooms. You sense it, then swallow it, and your silence signs the deal. Charm turns into a leash. Half-answers breed confusion that eats your time, your sleep, your appetite. Stop pretending murk is mysterious. Ask the blunt question. If they lunge into fog, step out of the room. Boundaries are not warfare. They are doors you lock.
Clarity is a disinfectant and a compass. Motive is the currency of intimacy; without receipts, you pay interest in resentment. Your intuition is powerful, but it needs data, not smoke. Direct questions cut the spell and return your time to you. This is not cruelty. It is maintenance—like checking a bank statement, like cleaning the fridge. Transparency keeps desire sharp instead of feral.
Cosmic Context
You were born to track undercurrents and name the unsaid. When you wield that gift without apology, you stop inheriting other people’s mess.
Action
──────Text them: "What do you want from this?" Then wait.
✨ You are allowed to demand motives and leave when they dodge. ✨