Original Advice
“DONT: Stop testing loyalty through jealousy or silence.”
Stop Weaponizing Silence And Jealousy
Your jealousy isn’t a love detector. It’s a smoke bomb. The silent treatment doesn’t protect you; it starves what you want. You call it intuition, but it’s surveillance. You call it mystery, but it’s punishment. You force people to audition for a role they’ve already won. You become the architect of the distance you fear. Admit it: these tactics are control, not care.
Trust is not built under interrogation lights. It grows in ordinary daylight: answered texts, kept plans, breathing room. When you test, you teach people to hide. When you punish, you train them to lie. Real power is risking clarity. Say what you need. Hear what they can give. If it’s not enough, leave. If it is, stop poking the bruise.
Cosmic Context
Fixed water sees beneath the surface and squeezes too hard when afraid. Pluto wants truth, not traps; Mars wants action, not tests.
Action
──────Text them what you need. No riddles, no delays.
✨ You are allowed to ask plainly and still be magnetic. ✨