Original Advice
“DO: Set a check-in time and keep it.”
Replace Sulks With Schedules
Your silence is not subtle; it's a leash. You punish with delays, sighs, and late replies, then call it calm. It isn’t calm. It’s a storm with the sound turned down. Set a check-in time and keep it. Stop weaponizing lateness. Put the conversation on the calendar. Show up on the dot. If you care, prove it with clocks.
Routine is your metal and your meadow. You crave certainty, then trap others in guessing games. A standing check-in drains the poison: no decoding, no crumbs, no tests. Fixed earth thrives on cadence. A time agreed is a bridge built. Keep it and resentment has nowhere to root. Miss it and you signal indifference. Choose clocks over clues. Let consistency do the talking you avoid.
Cosmic Context
As a Venus-ruled earth sign, you prove devotion through reliability and rhythm. Your throat is ruled—use it on time.
Action
──────Pick a weekly check-in time; set an alarm; never move it.
✨ You are allowed to be boringly on time and still magnetic. ✨