Original Advice

Flirting isn’t your perfection project: You’re calling it 'being selective,' but you’re hiding behind overanalysis. Interest without action reads as indifference. If you want connection, risk a clear signal.

Stop Editing, Start Flirting

Your crush isn't a spreadsheet. You call it selectivity; it's delay. You trim your words, polish your glance, wait for perfect timing. Interest without action reads as indifference. Silence writes its own answer. Attraction expires while you optimize. You crave control, so you hide behind analysis. Stop quality-assuring chemistry. Risk a clear signal, not a clever hint. Be obvious. Be seen. Be choosable because you chose.

Your ruler is Mercury; you worship precision. Precision seduces logic, not bodies. Flirtation runs on messy signal strength, not flawless data. You fear being misread or wasting time, so you test, audit, and wait. Testing sterilizes heat. People respond to explicitness, not puzzles. Chemistry needs friction, not approval. Lead with a sentence your heartbeat says. Let your mind follow your mouth. Clarity accelerates fate.

Cosmic Context

Mutable earth builds order from chaos, then forgets to touch it. Mercury gives you flawless edits; Venus wants a typo of desire.

Action

──────

Send one blunt text: I want to take you out.

You are allowed to be obvious, to risk cringe, to get chosen.