Original Advice
“You are allowed to expect consistency. - You don't have to earn basic reliability or chase reassurance. Ask for clear plans, define boundaries, and walk away if they're repeatedly ignored. This ends guilt loops and protects your peace.”
Loyalty Arrives On Schedule
Stop treating chaos like a test you have to ace. When you accept late texts, vague plans, half-kept promises, you teach them that your time is elastic. You call it patience; it reads as permission. You do quality control; they do damage control. Loyalty is not improvisation. It's consistency. If they can't show up as agreed, don't investigate. Don't fix. Close the tab.
Your nervous system runs on schedules. That isn't nitpicky; it's honest. Devotion is repeatable, not theatrical. The right people confirm plans, follow through, and apologize once, not weekly. Boundaries don't punish; they sort. Clarity lowers the noise so your mind can build, not babysit. Loyalty is maintenance: reminders, calendars, showing up on a Tuesday. Choose the ones who respect time. Let flakiness disqualify itself.
Cosmic Context
You are Mercury-ruled earth: a translator of chaos into clean lines. Your magic works when people keep rhythm; demand the rhythm.
Action
──────Set a 15-minute grace window; leave if they’re late.
✨ You are allowed to stop managing other people's reliability. ✨