Original Advice
“DO: Notice the small fixes they quietly handle.”
Praise The Quiet Repairs
You keep score in decimals but skip the column labeled invisible. They swap the dead bulb, reorder the spices, send the email you avoided, and you treat it like oxygen—necessary, unnoticed. Stop pretending love is only grand gestures or flawless plans. Look down. The floor is clean because someone knelt. That counts. Say it out loud.
Attention is your real currency. Spend it on their maintenance, not your standards. Each quiet fix is a love note written in utility: air in your tires, chargers coiled, calendar synchronized. When you name the work, you reinforce the bridge you walk across daily. Gratitude calibrates your precision into devotion. Miss it, and rust spreads. See it, and the machine runs smoother.
Cosmic Context
Mercury sharpens your eyes for flaws, but it also hands you language. Use it to bless what works, not just diagnose what breaks.
Action
──────Say I saw that and name the fix today.
✨ You are allowed to stop optimizing and start appreciating. ✨