Original Advice
“DO: Request concrete examples and actionable next steps.”
Demand Receipts, Not Vibes
Here’s the ugly math: vagueness enables meanness. When someone says “you’re difficult” without an example, they’re dodging the bill. When you nod along, you co-sign the charge. Stop letting haze decide your value. Force the room into daylight. Ask where, when, how. If they can’t name it, it isn’t yours to carry. Precision protects you.
Your brain wants to fix things; without specifics, it overworks into self-criticism. Examples turn fog into tasks with edges. Actionable next steps convert judgment into movement. Data gives your nervous system a job: do, check, repeat. Demand timelines, metrics, names. Not out of pettiness, out of efficiency. You save hours, avoid resentment, and stop mistaking tone for truth.
Cosmic Context
You’re Mercury-ruled earth: precision is your native language. This is devotion expressed through detail.
Action
──────Reply: “Give two examples and one concrete next step.”
✨ You are allowed to require clarity and deadlines without being mean. ✨