Original Advice
“DONT: Ghost people when you just need space.”
Ask For Space, Not Silence
Ghosting isn’t mystery; it’s avoidance dressed as genius. When your mood drops, you vanish and call it freedom. It reads as punishment. People spiral in the blank space you leave. You don’t need a trapdoor. You need one clear sentence, sent on time. Distance isn’t complicated. Silence is. Stop confusing privacy with secrecy, solitude with exile, space with absence. Be the signal, not the static.
Your brain moves like lightning over a grid; you crave open sky and clean systems. Disappearing corrupts the network you rely on. Friends stop trusting the connection; relationships buffer. You want independence, not isolation. Create a protocol: declare your window, set a return time, then log off. Clarity preserves your oxygen. Boundaries are infrastructure, not drama. A single ping prevents a hundred assumptions and keeps the bridge intact.
Cosmic Context
You’re Fixed Air: the broadcaster, not the blackout. Saturn builds the structure; Uranus flips the switch—use both to make space without disappearing.
Action
──────Text: I need 24 hours. I’ll reply tomorrow.
✨ You are allowed to want distance and still stay dependable. ✨