Original Advice
“DO: State your pace and follow through consistently.”
Set the Tempo, End the Cling
Your chaos invites clinginess. You blaze in at 100 mph, promise the moon with your eyes, then disappear at the first yawn. That whiplash trains people to grip harder. Mixed signals are bait. Flirting like a siren and answering like a ghost is control dressed as spontaneity. Set the speed. Say it aloud. Then keep it, even when the attention drought tempts you to flood.
Consistency kills the scarcity fog. When they know your tempo, their nervous system stops hunting. Your fire works best with oxygen, not hands around your throat. Choose a sustainable cadence: how often you text, see, call. Announce it once, not a hundred times. Back it with action and silence. Clarity makes you trustworthy, not tame. Power lives in repetition, not performance. Make rituals where drama used to sit.
Cosmic Context
You are cardinal fire, ruled by Mars; you set the drumbeat. Leadership is rhythm, not spurts.
Action
──────Text: I reply after 6 p.m. Then do that.
✨ You are allowed to keep your pace, even when someone clings. ✨