Original Advice
“DONT: Don't reward hot-and-cold with extra attention.”
Stop Feeding Their Flicker
Clinginess masquerades as passion when you chase the person who goes warm, then ice. You call it persistence; they call it supply. Every time they fade and you lean closer, you teach them that your fire is free. That isn’t love. That’s a vending machine with your heart inside. Pull your heat back. Refuse to sweeten inconsistency. Let silence make its own weather.
Attention is currency. When you spend it on volatility, you inflate chaos and bankrupt self-respect. Consistency deserves fuel; mixed signals deserve drought. Aries energy conquers, but conquest of crumbs keeps you starving. Train the room: engage when it’s steady, disappear when it wobbles. Match effort, not desire. Reclaim your speed. Move toward the ones who step toward you, not the ones who blink Morse code.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; ignition is your gift. Aim it at equals, not at weather vanes.
Action
──────Mute their notifications for seven days. Do not explain.
✨ You are allowed to stop chasing and still be wanted. ✨