Original Advice
“DO: Lead with clarity; ask for specific plans.”
Replace Distance With Dates
Stop pretending the distance is mysterious. It’s just vagueness wearing perfume. You keep translating crumbs into omens, refreshing screens, scripting excuses they didn’t say. Your patience is performing loyalty; your silence signs the contract. Fantasy keeps you warm, then burns daylight. If it matters, it gets measured. If they want you, they schedule you. Ask, or keep orbiting empty space.
Clarity is not aggression; it is orientation. Specific plans turn feelings into coordinates, turning drift into direction. Time, place, duration. That’s how you locate care. When you ask for exacts, you invite truth to show its face. Some will step forward. Some will evaporate. Both outcomes save you fuel. Put the date on the table. If they stall, you proceed without them.
Cosmic Context
Mars rules you; you are built to initiate, not to hover. Choose ignition over interpretation.
Action
──────Send: Tuesday 7 PM, Corner Cafe. Confirm yes or no.
✨ You are allowed to want plans, not vibes. ✨