Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t confuse urgency with importance or intimacy.”
Urgency Is Not Intimacy, Aries
You chase heat and call it love. You answer the ping like a dog whistle. A missed call becomes a verdict. You sprint toward any burning building just to feel necessary. Stop. Fast isn't deep. Immediate isn't sacred. Let the siren blare without naming it destiny. Your heart isn't a stopwatch. It's a room. Keep the door on its hinges.
Urgency feeds your Mars. It gives you something to fight, so you don't have to feel. Importance speaks quietly. Intimacy comes slow, with repetition, with Tuesdays, with dishes drying. The real thing survives a pause. If it dies in ten minutes, it wasn't alive. Choose signals over sirens. Choose patterns over sparks. Train your fire to warm, not scorch.
Cosmic Context
Cardinal fire burns fast; Mars makes you mistake motion for meaning. Aim that engine at endurance, not alarms.
Action
──────Let texts sit unread for ten minutes before replying.
✨ You are allowed to take your time without losing the moment. ✨