Original Advice
“DONT: Text mid-argument; schedule the talk instead.”
Stop Arguing Through Glass Screens
Your thumbs swing first and ask questions never. You flood the thread with rapid-fire certainties, then wonder why no one feels seen. Text flattens tone, weaponizes punctuation, turns your speed into shrapnel. You don’t argue — you broadcast. Empathy needs air, not bubbles. Put the phone down. Name a time. Let your mouth and breath carry what your wrists keep mishandling.
Screens erase temperature. Lag drips gasoline on sparks. Without breath, your Mars becomes a siren, not a signal. In voice, you hear the tremor, the laugh, the long swallow that says more than paragraphs. A scheduled call lays a boundary your fire won’t jump. Choose cadence over clatter. Win by understanding, not interrupting. Meet at the agreed hour. Say less, mean more.
Cosmic Context
You’re the spark, ruled by Mars. Real power is aim, not volume.
Action
──────Block 30 minutes and call them, not text.
✨ You are allowed to slow the reply and still be fierce. ✨