Original Advice
“You are allowed to ask what love looks like. - Empathy isn't mind-reading. Ask people how they want support and practice it imperfectly. You don't owe instant perfection—only honest care and course correction; release the guilt.”
Stop Guessing. Ask Love Directly
Stop auditioning as a mind reader. Your silence is control dressed as kindness. Guessing keeps you invincible and alone. You swing grand gestures like weapons and miss the mark by inches. Empathy is not telepathy; it's contact. Ask them what love looks like and let the answer change your plan. Practice it clumsy. Drop the guilt costume. Deliver care, not magic tricks.
Curiosity is leadership. Precision is care. Aries moves first; now aim. Ask for specs: words or actions, solitude or company, touch or space, morning or midnight. Write it down. Do it as requested. When you fumble, fix it fast and out loud. Guilt centers you; correction centers them. Love prefers updates over oaths. Iterate. Recalibrate. Keep the fire, lower the guesswork.
Cosmic Context
You were built for initiations, not assumptions. Mars rules you; bravery is asking first and adjusting fast.
Action
──────Ask one person today: How do you want care?
✨ You are allowed to learn love out loud and still be fierce. ✨