Original Advice
“Jealousy Isn't Passion, It's Insecurity: Calling it 'just Aries energy' won't fix it. Jealous reactions push people away faster than they protect love. Own the fear, or it will own the relationship.”
Jealousy Is A False Alarm
Call it what it is: jealousy is panic dressed as devotion. It isn’t defending your love; it’s defending your ego. Each accusation, each surveillance check, turns romance into a cage you built. You think you’re protecting the bond. You’re proving you don’t trust it. Stop glamorizing the spiral. Admit the fear out loud, or it will dictate every move you make.
Jealousy feels like heat because you are ruled by Mars. But heat without aim scorches what you want to hold. Control is a superstition: you refresh, interrogate, compare, and call it loyalty. Real loyalty is presence, not patrol. Desire expands with trust; it shrinks under surveillance. Choose confrontation with reality over fantasy threats. Ask, listen, decide. Not chase, guess, spiral.
Cosmic Context
You’re cardinal fire, built for first moves, not second-guessing. Mars arms you to confront truth directly; wield that, not suspicion.
Action
──────Ask one clear question; accept the answer; stop checking.
✨ You are allowed to ask for clarity and leave if it’s denied. ✨