Original Advice
“DONT: Don’t treat every delay like an insult.”
Not Everyone Is Attacking You
Your panic fills in the blank space with enemies. A late reply becomes proof they don’t care. A rescheduled plan becomes proof you’re not important. Every pause feels like judgment. This is arrogance dressed as fear: assuming you are always the main character in everyone’s mind. You waste rage on ghosts that never knew there was a battle.
Delay is not a verdict. It’s traffic, dead batteries, missed alarms, full calendars, low energy, bad Wi-Fi. It’s life moving at a different tempo than your pulse. Your instinct is to sprint, then demand the world keep up. When it doesn’t, you translate silence into betrayal. Refuse that translation. Let time pass without turning it into a weapon against you.
Cosmic Context
You are Mars-ruled fire: fast, sharp, impatient. The sky did not design you for waiting, but it did not promise you instant results either.
Action
──────When you feel snubbed, wait 24 hours before reacting.
✨ You are allowed to exist unmentioned, unpraised, and still be worthy. ✨